child support rules.

csa are biased  towards the fathers ….if the parent has the children  for  a full week  that parent  .should not have to pay the csa  just because the   <mother. normally >  has the last word and insist . on the payment even though the children  are not in her care..each case should have one case worker  not dozens . the departments  of csa  are too big .and they also answer to no one .    if the absent fathers  dont want to pay .they never will …its a complete waste of time and money  .to send to prison the fathers who are trying the best they can…csa  pursues  the fathers  who are already  trying to  stay in their children lives.

i think that it is a crime. the way  the csa    have the right to add on as they please.  fines for this .and fines for that  .sometimes .most times. it leaves the fathers in arrears  for thousands  of pounds  even an IDIOT  .     must realise  that the fathers  on the csa books  are there because  they did  run away   AND ARE NOT ABSENT  FATHERS      .WHEN A PARENT IS BEHIND WITH PAYMENT  ..THEY SHOULD BE ABLE TO ATTEND  AN INDEPENDENT MEETING  WITH INDEPENDENT  PEOPLE  WHO WILL LISTEN  ..NOT SEND THEM TO COURT ..

Why is this idea important?

csa are biased  towards the fathers ….if the parent has the children  for  a full week  that parent  .should not have to pay the csa  just because the   <mother. normally >  has the last word and insist . on the payment even though the children  are not in her care..each case should have one case worker  not dozens . the departments  of csa  are too big .and they also answer to no one .    if the absent fathers  dont want to pay .they never will …its a complete waste of time and money  .to send to prison the fathers who are trying the best they can…csa  pursues  the fathers  who are already  trying to  stay in their children lives.

i think that it is a crime. the way  the csa    have the right to add on as they please.  fines for this .and fines for that  .sometimes .most times. it leaves the fathers in arrears  for thousands  of pounds  even an IDIOT  .     must realise  that the fathers  on the csa books  are there because  they did  run away   AND ARE NOT ABSENT  FATHERS      .WHEN A PARENT IS BEHIND WITH PAYMENT  ..THEY SHOULD BE ABLE TO ATTEND  AN INDEPENDENT MEETING  WITH INDEPENDENT  PEOPLE  WHO WILL LISTEN  ..NOT SEND THEM TO COURT ..

fathers rights

the more you here the worse it gets, the law should change, and very soon,some of these poor men and their children,especially when there are so many good fathers who love their children,and have to leave the family home,with nothing,after they have worked hard for the family and home,very often going back to their parents home.not being able to kiss there children goodnight ,and being blackmailed to a degree of when and if to see the child or children,putting up with perhaps a new partner moving in his home, also unfair is most fathers who work hard and pay there money on a regular basis,if there is a problem, over not aggreeing certain things over accsess as it is usual for the mother to have the say, lots dont work so they get legal aid,the father cant get it over a certain wage,cant afford hundreds and possible hundreds to try and have a say  about possible more accsess. this could have been looked into before,as the fathers rights and various other groups have tried  for such a long time,meanwhile fathers children are hurting and suffering

Why is this idea important?

the more you here the worse it gets, the law should change, and very soon,some of these poor men and their children,especially when there are so many good fathers who love their children,and have to leave the family home,with nothing,after they have worked hard for the family and home,very often going back to their parents home.not being able to kiss there children goodnight ,and being blackmailed to a degree of when and if to see the child or children,putting up with perhaps a new partner moving in his home, also unfair is most fathers who work hard and pay there money on a regular basis,if there is a problem, over not aggreeing certain things over accsess as it is usual for the mother to have the say, lots dont work so they get legal aid,the father cant get it over a certain wage,cant afford hundreds and possible hundreds to try and have a say  about possible more accsess. this could have been looked into before,as the fathers rights and various other groups have tried  for such a long time,meanwhile fathers children are hurting and suffering

Minister for Men

A Minister for Men should campaign against all forms of male discrimination.

(1) Make Improving the educational attainment of boys a political priority.

(2) Make the state recognize/support male domestic violence victims.

(3) Improve care and funding for prostate/testicular cancer sufferers.

(4) Make judges enforce child contact orders.

(5) Support equal parenting laws.

(6) Provide better help and retraining for unemployed men.

(7) Force a review of the CSA maintenance criteria where the mother has left her husband for another man, re-married or has simply walked out of a marriage with the children.

(8) Support anonymity for men accused of rape, unless found guilty.

(9) Improve care and support for men suffering from depression.

(10) Campaign against anti-male propaganda and male stereotyping in the media.

(11) Support equal sentencing criteria for men and women.

(12) Stop the political disenfranchisement of individual men by abolishing discriminatory all-woman shortlists and priority lists

Why is this idea important?

A Minister for Men should campaign against all forms of male discrimination.

(1) Make Improving the educational attainment of boys a political priority.

(2) Make the state recognize/support male domestic violence victims.

(3) Improve care and funding for prostate/testicular cancer sufferers.

(4) Make judges enforce child contact orders.

(5) Support equal parenting laws.

(6) Provide better help and retraining for unemployed men.

(7) Force a review of the CSA maintenance criteria where the mother has left her husband for another man, re-married or has simply walked out of a marriage with the children.

(8) Support anonymity for men accused of rape, unless found guilty.

(9) Improve care and support for men suffering from depression.

(10) Campaign against anti-male propaganda and male stereotyping in the media.

(11) Support equal sentencing criteria for men and women.

(12) Stop the political disenfranchisement of individual men by abolishing discriminatory all-woman shortlists and priority lists

equal parenting

The law which allows a woman to leave the marital home for no good reason, taking the child or children with her and refusing the father contact should be abolished.

It is an anti-social law and grossly unfair contributing to broken families. Children deprived of their loving father lose a valuable contribution to their lives, do not usually do so well at school and grow up with an unbalanced view of life. Responsibility of a child's upbringing should be shared equally as is the law in other countries.

Put this right now !.

Why is this idea important?

The law which allows a woman to leave the marital home for no good reason, taking the child or children with her and refusing the father contact should be abolished.

It is an anti-social law and grossly unfair contributing to broken families. Children deprived of their loving father lose a valuable contribution to their lives, do not usually do so well at school and grow up with an unbalanced view of life. Responsibility of a child's upbringing should be shared equally as is the law in other countries.

Put this right now !.

Equal Rights for Fathers

In the event of separation/divorce, joint residency should be the norm rather than the exception. Under current rules, it is absurd that a father may have to still pay child maintenance to the mother even if the children have more overnight stays with him because historically the mother has been the one in receipt of child allowance (the Child Support Agency use this to determine who the resident parent is and therefore who pays (or not) child maintenance).

Why is this idea important?

In the event of separation/divorce, joint residency should be the norm rather than the exception. Under current rules, it is absurd that a father may have to still pay child maintenance to the mother even if the children have more overnight stays with him because historically the mother has been the one in receipt of child allowance (the Child Support Agency use this to determine who the resident parent is and therefore who pays (or not) child maintenance).

Reform of Family Law

A family legal system which fails to acknowledge fathers as having equal status with mothers fails to protect the best interests of children.

We need to "degender" the issue. There should be no presumption that one parent is better than the other. Sometimes the mother will be best, sometimes the father, hopefully both will be able to play an equal and meaningful roll.

We need to remove the notion that simply because one parent has been the child's prime carer that that parent is necessarily more able or more important than the other. The fact that that prime carer frequently prevents the other parent from having contacvt with the child or makes it as difficult as possible needs to be recognised and acknowledged. In such situations the courts allowing this situation to continue is often not acting in the child's best interest at all.

Legal costs are astronomical and this prevents many very willing fathers who wish to be involved with their children from having teh relationship which not only they but the child would like to enjoy.

Tens of thousands of pounds are spent by fathers (predominently) who do not have this kind of money because that is the level of importance they place on their children. 

You can't give anybody their childhood back, you can't give them back the time they have lost with their father growing up. We need to wake up and act NOW. Little wonder people resort to dressing up in super heroe costumes. I don't think that this neccesarily serves the cause well but my word, what else does one  do when nobody ever listens? This is an issue affecting thousands of very loving and capable fathers. PLEASE listen, please address these issues meaningfully. 

Why is this idea important?

A family legal system which fails to acknowledge fathers as having equal status with mothers fails to protect the best interests of children.

We need to "degender" the issue. There should be no presumption that one parent is better than the other. Sometimes the mother will be best, sometimes the father, hopefully both will be able to play an equal and meaningful roll.

We need to remove the notion that simply because one parent has been the child's prime carer that that parent is necessarily more able or more important than the other. The fact that that prime carer frequently prevents the other parent from having contacvt with the child or makes it as difficult as possible needs to be recognised and acknowledged. In such situations the courts allowing this situation to continue is often not acting in the child's best interest at all.

Legal costs are astronomical and this prevents many very willing fathers who wish to be involved with their children from having teh relationship which not only they but the child would like to enjoy.

Tens of thousands of pounds are spent by fathers (predominently) who do not have this kind of money because that is the level of importance they place on their children. 

You can't give anybody their childhood back, you can't give them back the time they have lost with their father growing up. We need to wake up and act NOW. Little wonder people resort to dressing up in super heroe costumes. I don't think that this neccesarily serves the cause well but my word, what else does one  do when nobody ever listens? This is an issue affecting thousands of very loving and capable fathers. PLEASE listen, please address these issues meaningfully. 

The Enforcement of Family Law contact orders for children absent from father!

The proper enforcement of this administrative current bungle!

Where as an absent father I've been granted a contact order & parental responsibility for my child.

However, it isn't enforced so that conatct can take place on a regular basis nor is it a good code of conduct for the mother who denies contact to the father.

Why then do we pay the child support when we are un-able to support our childrens education & spiritual, physical development?

I have been through the legal system for the last 12 years.

Thankful to God! My child uses the internet. This enables us to achieve some basic disalogue but it is still not enough respect for paternal development of our relationship!

What a farce!

I'd like a whole review of this scheme. That is contact centres, schools & other government centres where we should be allowed our rights! To keep the human family.

My local government library seems to be the safest place to even mention such a thing!

Also the fact that we are of an African Islaamic heritage born & bred in this kingdom & empire.

We need more Democracy not Plutocracy in our culture!

www.ruthinking.co.uk

Why is this idea important?

The proper enforcement of this administrative current bungle!

Where as an absent father I've been granted a contact order & parental responsibility for my child.

However, it isn't enforced so that conatct can take place on a regular basis nor is it a good code of conduct for the mother who denies contact to the father.

Why then do we pay the child support when we are un-able to support our childrens education & spiritual, physical development?

I have been through the legal system for the last 12 years.

Thankful to God! My child uses the internet. This enables us to achieve some basic disalogue but it is still not enough respect for paternal development of our relationship!

What a farce!

I'd like a whole review of this scheme. That is contact centres, schools & other government centres where we should be allowed our rights! To keep the human family.

My local government library seems to be the safest place to even mention such a thing!

Also the fact that we are of an African Islaamic heritage born & bred in this kingdom & empire.

We need more Democracy not Plutocracy in our culture!

www.ruthinking.co.uk